It’s hard to not really repeat what everyone else has already said isn’t it? I’m married for 12 years, with a couple of kids, and like most of us things have probably gotten a little stale. I’m looking for excitement, connection, emotion, longing. Thinking about that person when I shouldn’t, but getting that smile on my face when I see that message waiting for me when I switch over to telegram.

So.. me. I’m quite tall (6’4) with short salt and pepper hair, dark features, athletic build (I try to keep fit!) so I feel like I look fairly decent for my age. I’m quite a bubbly chatter, honest and wear my heart on my sleeve. I tend to fall fast and hard. I’m probably on the higher end of kinky? I’ve generally suppressed a lot of what I’m into so part of this is an outlet for that as well.

I’m a professional and I work in the office more than I used to but I have a flexible work schedule and plenty of time to talk. I love films that make you think and sharing my day when I can. I feel like pictures, videos and voice notes make these sort of things feel more real and tangible so I’m open to sharing and I would hope you are too!

In terms of who I’m looking for - it would be someone active and patient. I’m not available every minute of the day but I will always let you know if I’m going to be busy or away - we all have work and family and they will come first. But I will be very available! Mutual attraction is important but I don’t really have a type - although if you’re a curvy mum bod, I am very interested :)

I live in Australia, so I have a fun accent but not a super fun timezone, but I’m willing to work at it if you are! I assure you I’m worth the time :) My only preferences are that you are over 28. If you aren’t married or in a long term relationship that’s ok, but I’d be keen to talk to someone who is also married.

If I sound like your cup of tea (or coffee) please send me a chat!