Married(obviously) 40 year old white male here, father of 3, imperfect in many ways but I always try my best despite that. Seeking someone who is just as imperfect for both the physical and emotional/mental connection. I'm in the Tulsa area but can do a long distance thing too for the right person.
I'm in a happy marriage, so not looking to change anyone's situation, or mine. That being said, I am not afraid of feelings, and actually prefer them. However, communicating those feelings and the ability to compartmentalize them or understand where they're coming from are key.
The bedroom at home isn't fully dead, but it's definitely in a coma and on life support.
I want to get to know you, all about you. I'm happy for the deeper conversations that are fresh and interesting, but I'll also ask how your day is and have the "boring" conversations also. I'm available to text/talk pretty much any part of the day, I won't stop talking in the evenings or weekends and can talk plenty during the work day also.
I have a lot of varied interests and am excited to learn all about yours. However, if politics are a big part of your life, you're probably not for me. My last pAP I was talking to ruined her chances by being extremely toxic down the misinformation political rabbit hole.
I need someone with a positive outlook on life. I want to uplift you and get that in return, not drag you down.
Thank you for reading my ramblings, hope to hear from that special someone soon!
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