I’ve always had this desire of having a secret friend. Someone that I can connect with on every level, someone who won’t judge me and will listen to me with care and compassion. I know a lot of folks here are looking for a lot of different things but I’m truly looking for a lasting close relationship that blossoms in heart to heart conversations, laughter, and genuine care. Someone who we both take the time to get to know each other and our hopes and dreams despite our marriages.

I don’t know if this exists here but it’s worth trying for. I thought I found it once but after a long time of talking I was ghosted. And it seems that every time I’ve tried to reignite that fire things fall flat. I understand both parties being married makes things difficult, and I’d never want anyone to put me before their family, but I am hoping to find someone who has a decent amount of time for this.

I’m a chubby 45 year old dad, introvert, goofball, obsessed with music, home cook, amateur musician, certified rambler and all around a big teddy bear with a heart full of love that no one seems to want. I’m a morning person who loves enjoying coffee in the peace and quiet of the morning before the chaos begins.

Well, I’ll stop rambling now and just say that if you’re looking for something long term with someone who really wants to get to know and connect with someone on a deep level, then I’d love to hear from you. Id like to move to another app fairly quickly (Telegram) if we hit it off. Lastly I should say that physical attraction isn’t hugely important to me, it’s inside that I am interested in getting to know on every level both emotional and sexual.

I should also say that once I connect with someone I love to share pics, voice messages, videos, etc. Looking for someone who likes the same. Fingers crossed! 🤞

35 only. USA/Canada only.

I’m mostly interested in women close to my age. Not really into the age gap thing. Also seeking someone chatty who doesn’t write one word responses. I’m very open and talkative so hoping to find someone who is the same.

What makes my ad “different”? I’m tired of the bs and hoping to meet my pocket soul mate. Not looking for a quick fling or a strictly sexual relationship. I am definitely open to the sexual aspect and am very open minded in that regard but I truly want to connect on every level and sex is definitely not my sole focus or main goal.

Bonus points if you’re 420 friendly or a morning person.