Alright let's try this again lol. Early 30s F in the GTA looking for a hot married/attached man to indulge our degenerate cheating kinks together. Prefer late 20s to early 40s, but flexible. Please tell me a little bit about yourself and what you look like... I don't think guys realize how many messages girls get on a post like this... I literally can't make small talk with 100 people, so I skim to find a description that appeals to me. How would people describe you? What other kinks do you have? What are you looking for? Chemistry is super important, even more than looks in many cases, but obviously mutual attraction is a must. We all have preferences, and I like guys with great hair, tattoos, and alt styles in particular are a huge turn on for me, but again - not a must just a plus.

My only real requirement is that you put some effort into things. We're doing something inherently hot and naughty here, and I want to indulge in the wrongness of it all. That's the whole point! If I just want a run-of-the-mill, boring fuck from some guy I'd look for a ONS at a bar. I want to hear how turned on you are just thinking about our last encounter and what you want to do to each other when we meet up again. I want to know what things turn you on but you'd never share with your wife and I want to pleasure you in ways she wouldn't even imagine. I want your ring finger with your wedding ring inside me. And most importantly, I want to actually talk about how hot it all is! So many guys seem great right up until it comes down to the wire, then all the enthusiasm evaporates and they don't want to communicate aside from dick pics and planning a meet-up. Like, no dude. I'm not risking things for some low-effort dirty talk and silent fucking. I can get that at home lol. Where is the PASSION?! I need some form of communication or I'm not interested and I'm not going to wait around in the hopes it improves.

Also, if you send me your real name and a face picture in the first messages it's an automatic no. That tells me you don't have the restraint required to keep a secret, and that's a hard pass. Faceless photos without identifying features or backgrounds are fine and what I start with, but don't be stupid about how you conduct yourself.... You're easy to find and you're going to get caught. Let's chat for at least a few minutes before revealing your face, OK? Jaded mini-rant over lol.