Hi there :) 32m located in Connecticut. Married to a woman - but sexually frustrated, unsatisfied, and also experiencing some gay urges for the first time in my life. If you’re not comfortable having a tryst with a married person, there’s no need to read on. But if you are, or even better, if it turns you on, here’s the important stuff :)

1) I am not looking to fall in love, I am not looking to leave my wife, and I have absolutely no desire to change your situation either, whatever it may be. To this end, NSA & discretion are non-negotiable.

2) What, exactly, am I looking for here? I’m looking for genuine sexual excitement, fun & open-minded sexual exploration, and x-rated carnal adventure. I’m looking primarily for a woman, but am also very open to couples, and some single men (no single men older than myself, sorry). I want someone reliable, easygoing, and fun. In a perfect world, we would meet maybe twice a month to get our rocks off.

3) I am 5’11”, I weigh 215lbs. I am white. I have dark brown hair, brown eyes, a short brown beard. Broad shoulders, sturdy legs, moderate body hair, tightly groomed pubic hair. 6”, circumcised, fairly thick, with a head that has received a ton of compliments from men & women alike online.

4) I LOVE oral sex. My favorite sex act is eating pussy. My single biggest sexual fantasy right now is to receive head from a guy while a woman sits and grinds on my face. I am definitely looking to try head from a guy, as well as giving a guy head. I would love to frot with a guy as well (rub cocks together), and I think I’d be open to fucking a guy in the right situation (but not bottoming, at least not yet).

5) For women: I don’t really have a type. You’re all sexual queens in my book. I do love age gaps (younger and older) and thick/curvy/chubby gals. For men: I am really attracted to younger guys who are smooth, clean & cute-looking, and a touch feminine.

6) I’m clean, I am vaccinated & boosted, I do not use drugs, but I am 420-friendly. I occasionally vape, but do not smoke. College-educated and employed full-time. I probably can’t host, but may be able to occasionally.

7) I am not looking to rush things, at all. I have to feel safe and comfortable that you are a real person(s) with straightforward intentions before I will send you pics, let alone begin planning to meet. I’m sure the handful of people who’ve read this far would feel the same way if they were in a similar situation.

Sorry for the long post. I’ve tried this before and I do get responses but nothing has panned out, so I’m providing as much info up-front as I can. Hope to hear from someone cute, chill, and horny :)