Good morning just came across this sub at the right time I guess, because I am unsure what to do and it's really bumming myself and my wife out.

So I (M33) and my wife (F30) have a rather poor sex life to begin with. Ours was always more of a heart, mind, and soul love, but we still find eachother attractive and sexy. I have a high drive and she doesn't to the point where I'm lucky sex happens once a month.

Though I can't help but feel that part of the problem is me and my inability finish or finish quickly. She always says she prefers "2 pump chumps" because it's over done and on with our day. I on the other hand have NEVER been like that. I have always taken 30mins or more. Here recently however I can't seem to finish and it makes me feel horrible as a partner because I know she wants to see or feel me finish, but it just won't happen. What the heck is wrong with me !

I'm always able to cum alone no problem, but it's seems like with her it just won't happen. I thought at first maybe it's my meds so I abstained from them about a week prior and still the same results. Maybe it's in my head or I'm not worked up enough, because she doesn't really do foreplay: tried edging myself for a while and still no results. Heck I've even tried prostate stimulating while we go at and still nothing. I'm really worried cause what if there is something wrong with me?

I know i find her beautiful and sexy and always get turned on by her, but nothing seems to pop. I'm really stressed about this and not sure what to do. Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated!