We just recently got into bdsm play . We are newish but read a lot .

The other weekend we were playing with being tied up and adding spanking. So I've tied her up and this was my turn , now there's this thing it's called a humbler and it only works on men as women don't have balls . Well she put me in it , it is meant to squeeze your you know what and sits behind your knees as your bent over on all 4's . Picture not being able to stand up with this on unless you rip your sack off your body . Yes that's what this would do if you stood up . It's meant to keep you bent over .

So anyways she was spanking me and put down the paddle and picked up the whip and hit me with the same force and I stretched out in and tore my sack . Not compl6off but I could see a ball thru the tip I had to go to hospital to get stitches.

I told her no more bdsm . From now on .