My wife (46f) and I (48m) are in a swinger lifestyle-curious phase right now. We openly talk about the idea a lot. And while I’m much closer mentally to making it a reality, she actually does a lot more “research” on it (Reddit, podcasts, etc.) She’s says she’s “99%” sure it will never happen, but hey, 1% is 1%, right ;)

Anyway, we’re going on a short, no-kids hotel vacation next week and I had an idea for a “simulated” swapping experience I might want to try with her. I’d tell her the whole plan is advance, because she hates surprises, and the idea doesn’t really rely on surprise.

It starts when we’re out playing tourist and having dinner. I’ll ask her to find and point out a couple that she could see us playing with if we were to actually do it.

Then, that night, I’ll get her naked, warm her up in bed with foreplay, and eventually blindfold her. Then I’ll pretend to leave the room, and a couple minutes later, “re-enter” as the other guy. I’m not about to put on a made up voice, but I’d talk as little as possible. When I do talk, I’ll ask her things that the “real me” would already know. I’d maybe even do things I don’t normally do — nothing I know she truly dislikes, but just stuff different from what the real me normally does.

At the end, I’m not sure if she should cum in her as that guy, or “leave” the room and finish up as the real me, after removing her blindfold. Maybe the latter, as that would probably be more comfortable to her in a real swapping scenario.

I know she has an extremely vivid visual imagination, so this should all play out extremely realistically in her mind while she’s blindfolded.

Best case, this gets her a few percent closer to swinging for real. Worst case, it’s just a bit of harmless fantasy fun. What do you all think?