50m love sex but my wife is not into it as much as I am. Now as an empty nester I would love to have more sex and better sex. Problem is she doesn’t want to talk about it. I make sure I take great care of her and bring her to an amazing O, then she is like ok I’m done hurry up and finish. She thinks the ten seconds she sucks my dick is a blow job. I’m at the point now where I feel better getting myself off and I don’t feel rejected when she says no most of the time. In the past few years I have gotten myself into great shape (she never says any thing about it) and want to enjoy life, be naked and have great sex. She wont let me go down on her, won’t let me cum in her, won’t let me fuck her ass. It’s the same boring 5 minute shit. Lately when she asks I tell her no it’s ok I took care of myself because it doesn’t even do anything.

Just so you know I help around the house, laundry, etc…. Ask her to wear certain things and she tells me she isn’t a doll to dress up. If I tell her she looks sexy she tells me to stop. She is turning into an old lady overnight and I’m not ready for it. I even asked her to go topless on a beach and have fun, she had a fit when I mentioned it.

I don’t know what to do but living like this is depressing.

Thanks for listening!!