My wife and I have been married for almost 19 years and, for a variety of reasons, things have been going really well for us sexually lately. We're closer than ever, and this morning she did something she's never done before.

I work from home, and she goes to an office. She's usually too focused on thinking about work to be sexual at all in the morning, but I've been really good lately about showering her with words of affirmation (her love language) and physical affection, and I think it's "working" :)

I was just sitting in bed watching TV as she got dressed and was getting ready to leave. But before she left the room, without saying a word, she came over, pulled my shorts down, wrapped her mouth around my dick, gave it one quick suck, and pulled my shorts back up. Yes, it was just a fun tease, but it meant a LOT because she almost NEVER does anything sexual without a lot of foreplay ahead of time, especially not in the morning. The fact that she was in a sexual mindset at all without my really having to do anything, makes me feel like I've unlocked a new sexual side of her. I'm looking forward to seeing what she does next!

As a side note, we had a long talk last night about what it would take for us to start exploring swinging within the next few years. Now, she's far from fully sold on the idea, but the fact that she did THAT the morning after the conversation tells me that – at the very least, she's clearly not repulsed by the idea. And, at best, at least fantasizing about it made her hornier than usual >:)