Here’s what happened for us…

Many many moons ago, my wife and I had a sit down, 5-6 hour open and honest conversation about everything…what turns me on, what turns her on, every single nasty detail; complete transparency. I told her I had a masturbation problem and whether I wanted to admit it or not, masturbation was quick and easy and ultimately pulled me farther from her.

So we devised a plan, as a TEAM…every orgasm, every time I even consider having an orgasm, it’s about her. She either is the one facilitating it (if she’s home) or I, only if alone and I can’t wait, masturbate to a photo of her. I have to tell her every single time I cum, every time.

This rewired something in me, it made my body and my mind turn my gorgeous wife into the sole vessel of which I have any sexual energy. The most hardcore porn, now, pales in comparison to simply seeing my wife in athletic shorts. She’s become my addiction.

Now, what’s in it for her? What this did was increase the drive for my wife so much that I pursue her constantly…let me reiterate, CONSTANTLY. This isn’t a purely sexual pursuing but rather an emotional one. Massage every night, drinks throughout the day, working out for her, courting her, she never opens her door, she gets what she wants non-stop, pedicures once a month, manicures every two weeks, lashes every two weeks, Brazilian every 6-8 weeks, she gets pampered, date nights every other week…now, the beautiful thing about this is that the more I court her and service her, the more she desires me. Somebody has to jump in the circle first and when your wife becomes the heart of your very existence, you will certainly jump in first.

From a very vanilla, sex once every week or two to sex multiple times a day, at minimum once per day and introducing every toy and kink but a third; this has worked wonders.

What do we do now?

•We SMS and Snap, Snap is reserved for sexual play and talking sexually. We usually communicate throughout the day on snap for a build up each evening. She sends me a selfie every morning and it’s a perfect start to the day.

•If she ever brings me a drink, I have her spit in it…I understand if people think that’s weird but you have to understand, there isn’t a woman on the planet that can make me stand at “attention” by simply saying “hi” than my wife. She’s the embodiment of perfect femininity.

•I don’t cum every time, my refractory period sucks. It really affects my drive, don’t get me wrong my wife is sexy AF but if I cum more than once a day or several days back to back to back, I pursue her less. Therefore sex is about her, we focus on her needs and I get to cum sometimes but not everytime….she gets to cum as much and as often as she wants

•When she’s alone and bored or I’m away for work, she is to masturbate and keep her sexual energy high.

•We remain open and tell each other EVERYTHING. I’ve been wanting to eat her ass, badly, so I told her I’d really like to do that yesterday…look to the evening and her 🍑 is riding my face and I’m getting to kiss one of the most intimate areas on my beautiful bride.

She came twice yesterday, she will cum again tonight. I believe we’re playing strip jenga against eachother tonight so it should be a lot of fun! In closing, pursue your wife and not just with a passion, an absolute fiery passion…make her your drive and make her the reason for every thing you do. If you’re bored, no scrolling, you massage your wife, you play with her, your focus is on her and her alone in everything you do.