Hello friendly internet strangers. 44M/46F, married 20 years and we have fantastic sex - like rarely are we just going through the motions to get done - there is some serious fucking go on almost nightly and often 2-3 times a day on the weekend. I should be esctatic and wholly satisfied, but I'm always looking for more. Always wanting to push a limit or make it better.

We try to take a few weekends a year and be "just us." These have been sex-filled hedonistic good times.

Here is my issue: I can't help but think we are going to do the same exact thing on the next trip as we have other trips. Some lightly kinky (and louder) sex a few times daily, lingerie, new toy, a nap for her, watch a game on TV for me, repeat. She's not interested in clubs or the lifestyle (we've been experimenting just a bit, but we just don't enjoy the party and haven't met anyone that we want to get to know better so we are stepping back from that for now.)

Am I just spoiled? I feel like such an ass-hat for having a wonderful wife that will pretty much be on board with anything (as long as it's just us), yet here I am trying to figure out how to heat up our spicy marriage. Does anyone else feel this?