My wife (40F) and I (39M) have been married for 10yrs, sex life has been OK to date, sometimes better than others but it's improving currently.

I started to go to the gym about 6 months ago and have found my sex drive has really come up as well.

Anyway, guys don't underestimate the power of giving a massage. I am no pro and just watched some YT videos and bought some massage oil from Adore Beauty.

The last time I gave my wife a massage was months ago, but I mentioned it to her on Tuesday morning and she was keen for it that evening. I know that giving her a massage gets her super wet.

After the full body massage, to say she was horny was a understatement, we fucked multiple times, made her orgasm 5 times and she squirted before we finished together.

Probably up their for one of the best evenings of sex of our lives. It was so good. I like to ensure my wife enjoys herself, I derive my pleasure from knowing she is having a good time.

So give it a go, just use your bed, by some oils and watch your YT Vids, I wasn't even very good last night and need to give myself a refresher but yeah. Don't be afraid to touch near the sensitive areas, build that tension etc.