A recent poster's message gave me the idea for this post.

Be on time. He has places to go, people to see, shit to do. He's fitting you into his very busy schedule and giving you access to his cock. You should appreciate that.

No shows and ghosting is childish and selfish. Just don't do it. If you can't make it, let him know with lots of notice.

Straight guys are not into man scent. Shower, non-scented deodorant and clean clothes are a must. Don't wear cologne or scents. He doesn't want his wife to smell anything.

When speaking to him, pay attention, don't interrupt, and be respectful. Do not trash talk his house, car, music or his wife.

Do not talk about your own stuff, like work, favorite music, clothes, boyfriend etc. He doesn't care.

He's in charge. You're a servant. Don't make demands. Requests should be made before meeting so he can either accommodate or reject them without wasting his time.

Leave your clothes on unless he tells you otherwise. He's not attracted to men's bodies. You're basically just the very best automated Fleshlight.

Leave your cock in your pants unless he tells you otherwise. This is all about him.

No chit chat. He has a wife for that. And he's not very fond of it.

Do tell him the things you'll do that his wife won't, for example if you'll let him force your head down, tell him or put his hands on your head if you can't talk. Don't worry you won't suffocate.

When sucking try to go down to his balls and stay down as long as you can.

Don't eat or drink anything before you arrive if you are at risk of gagging and throwing up. Some men like it when you gag.

Most straight men don't want a rimjob from a guy, but you can offer and see what he says. If you have lots of time together, offer to clean his armpits or his feet with your mouth before you begin the BJ. You can ask him ahead of time not to wear deodorant if he'd like his pits cleaned. While licking his feet, massage them.

Ask him if he likes his nipples played with.

Do not touch him above his nipples unless he requests it.

If you like humiliation or degradation, tell him he can call you whatever names he pleases.

If you like it rough, tell him. He doesn't get that from his wife.

Tell him to get comfortable and begin undressing him by taking off his shoes and socks.

Rub your face in his covered crotch and ask if you can lick. He might not want spit on his dress slacks. Tell him how good he smells. When it's time to take him out, do so gently, slowly and reverently. He is giving you access to his pride possession. That's a precious gift.

Tell him how beautiful, perfect or big it is. If it's not big, don't insult him with a lie. Instead tell him how much you love his cock, how it feels and how it smells.

It's a tired trope, but don't forget his balls.

Take his pants off, carefully fold his clothes and lay them on a chair.

I'm assuming you know how to suck a cock. If you're a beginner, start slowly. If he moans do more of that. Pay attention to his frenulum or the underside of his head if he's circumcised. If he's big and you're doing a hand and mouth job, ask if he has lube or bring your own.

Bring him to the edge and then back off. Fondle his balls or rub his nipples until he cools down. Then back to his cock. Don't rush it unless he tells you to or you're running out of time. Repeat until it's time for him to cum.

Tell him you want him to cum in your mouth unless he wants to give you a facial.

Most guys will want to cum in your mouth. He might try to pull out because that's what he does with his wife. Make sure he knows he can shoot in your mouth. Less chance of jizz on the floor or couch where his wife will see it and no cleanup required.

When he's done, swallow. He doesn't want any evidence on a tissue. It might not taste great but it's your job.

Thank him and ask if you can help him get dressed.

He might have post cum regret. Be prepared to leave immediately. He might want to forget the whole thing but tell him to get in touch again and how much you enjoyed serving and servicing him.

If you have any other ideas feel free to share them here.