Hi there! I'm a 42 year old guy living in Europe. I work as a software engineer and have done so for a few years by now. I have a master's degree in Computer Science.

Instead of writing a long paragraph I'll list some (random?) facts about me.

• Married for 20 years now and things have dulled slowly for some time now. We are on the slow path to becoming roommates, but that doesn't mean I want out.
• 6’2 feet tall, brown hair and blue-greyish eyes - fairly normal build.
• I have a busy job, but I'll make time and an effort to talk throughout the day. But like every other job I have a risk of being unable to be looking at my phone for a few hours due to meetings etc.
• Socialable person that loves getting to know someone. Not just the small things but everything.
• I like the outdoors and I love photography - I don't get to spend enough times of these hobbies due to work stress but hopefully I'll find the time for it again.
• I run and workout a lot and I love doing so. Have worked as a personal trainer for a few years on the side while I was doing my master's degree.

What am I seeking?

• I'm looking for you? In reality just that special someone that will make me smile at my phone. That someone that makes heartbeat quicken every time I feel the buzz from my phone. Someone that makes me laugh. Someone that makes me feel seen, cared for and loved? Technically all of the things we are most likely both missing.
• I'm not looking for a one week thing. I'm looking for something that can potentially become longterm. I'm not here to change any situations (the mandatory line). I want to feel the chemistry building and I want to have the sinking feeling of missing you when I go to bed at night.

I want to get to someone who can make me laugh and who is comfortable being intimate early on. I'm curious for a sexual connection, and I want to be clear about that. Only online, so don't expect any kind of meet-ups. I am not experienced in online play, or roleplay, sexting, or whatever it’s called. Maybe mutual online masturbation? I don’t care how you look along as you are curious and imaginative.

• I'm not afraid to get attached nor am I afraid of getting vunerable with you. Hopefully you'll be the same.
• Age? I would prefer someone around the 28-55 age range. But would love someone who is a little older than me.

I’m drawn to a woman who knows how to balance innocence with a hint of wickedness. On the outside, you’re composed, sweet, even demure—but behind that smile, there’s a spark, a side that craves excitement and a little adventure. You’re someone who loves the outdoors, appreciates a good book, and has a playful streak that you don’t show everyone—only the right man. Maybe you’ve kept it hidden, but you long for someone who can unlock it, someone who can bring out both your softer and naughtier sides.

Curves are something I find irresistible—a natural, confident woman who isn’t afraid to embrace her body and her sensuality. You might seem innocent, but there’s a part of you that yearns for something more daring. Perhaps you’ve fantasized about exploring desires you’ve never shared with anyone. Maybe there’s a kinkier side to you, waiting to be discovered, and you want a man who can meet you there—someone who understands the thrill of a secret connection, where you can be both playful and passionate.

If you’re looking for a man who can handle both your sweet and mischievous sides, who can appreciate the contrast of innocence with a touch of wild, we might be a perfect match. We don’t need to complicate things in the real world, but I’m open to exploring that exciting tension online—where we can be free to connect, flirt, and dive into the naughtier side of life without limits.

Life’s too short to leave fantasies unexplored. If you’re craving the same—both emotional and sexual connection with someone who truly gets it—let’s see if we can bring that spark to life, together.

I'm very open to other platforms if we establish a connection but I would love to start off on Reddit. Other platforms that I am willing to use are mainly; Snapchat. I would love to somewhat early on exchange pictures to ensure that there is an attraction (or rather that you're attracted to me haha - I have no doubt in my mind I'll find you extremely mesmerizing.)