Hi. 40M here located in central Indiana. I’ve posted here several times in the past couple of months but have come up empty. I’m working under the assumption that there just aren’t many women in Indiana who are looking for an affair on here. That, or I’m too picky. Who knows. 🤷

A little about me.. I’m married (obviously) with two young kids. I’m not desperately unhappy in my marriage. I’m not in a dead bedroom. I’m not looking to change my situation or yours. I guess you could define me as a “cake eater” in adultery terms. 🍰

I’m Caucasian, 5’10”, brown hair/eyes, not bald, athletic/fit build, conventionally attractive. I’m college educated and have a great career. I like to travel (beach, please), binge watch good shows, and spend time with my kids. I enjoy good food and good drink. I like to exercise and stay in shape.

So why am I looking for an AP? What am I looking for? Glad that you asked.

Despite seemingly “having it all,” I still feel unfulfilled in many ways. Maybe I’m just a flawed person? My wife and I are both busy with work, running the kids around, doing the typical family stuff. So many times I feel like a robot, or that I’m Bill Murray in Groundhog’s Day waking up and doing it all over again, every day.

I want someone to share part of my life with, someone to chat/flirt with on the daily, share pics, videos, etc. Ultimately, I’m looking for a physical connection too, so ideally you’d be interested in that too and have flexibility in your schedule for meet ups from time to time.

I’m attracted to all types of women, to be honest. I don’t have a type, per se, within reason. I’m not attracted to overweight/bbw women, however. Sorry, just a personal preference. I’m a sucker for a great smile.

Anyway, if by some chance any of this resonates with you, and you want to chat, send me a DM. I prefer to use other apps if the conversation progresses (Telegram, etc.), and like to trade pics early on to ensure there’s mutual attraction between us.