I'm sure you've heard it all before at some point; Married, generally happy with my home life. A great wife who I've been with since college, 2 kids, a stable job I love and our own home tucked up into the mountain foothills. The thing I never expected to encounter as the years carried on is how passion has evaporated from the bedroom. I still think my wife looks great but any sexual advances are met with indifference... and worse... I feel shame for even trying. So, I've all but stopped trying. We aren't completely sex-less, but allowing her alone to determine when it happens, it certainly feels like it sometimes. I'm aching to truly feel desired again and to not feel selfish for wanting that. I want reciprocation to playful flirting. I want a coy smile when I randomly groped you in the kitchen and not an eye-roll. I want someone who'd brush the back of their hand across my crotch or their breasts against my arm and pass it off as an 'accident'.

So who am I? White, Mediterranean Heritage, 5'8", fit and athletic with nice arms and runner's butt. Blue eyes and salt and pepper hair with matching beard scruff. I'm creative, well read, happily nerdy at times and a solid product of the 90s. Cat dad (but hope to someday have a plot of land large enough for a Malamute!). Solidly left leaning despite how red the more rural areas around here can be. 9-5 office digs and afternoons filled with various sports practices. Disease, drug and smoke free. Vasectomy-safe for 3 years now. Average length cock with above average girth. High libido, healthy stamina, no crazy kinks (unless you consider that I took immense pleasure from my wife lactating during pregnancy, hah!). I enjoy oral, extended foreplay sessions, using toys to enhance the experience, being teased by a partner in lingerie and I'd love to focus extra attention on your breasts and nipples. I will also absolutely take advantage of that erogenous zone around your neck, ears and shoulders if given the chance.

Who am I looking for? Primarily someone who understands that being attached and stable doesn't mean the desire for new adventures goes away. We all have our unique reasons for being here - and I do not expect us to damage our existing lives or relationships. This should be a fun escape between two consenting adults! Physical attraction is a key component in any relationship - so I'd like to share some photos back and forth early on. Discretion is paramount - so if those photos are SFW and exclude you face at the outset that is fine with me. I will defer to you on when and how more risqué stuff gets involved. You should be witty, flirty, educated, love to read, enjoys pets, useless facts and bad jokes! You should take care of yourself (mentally and physically), enjoy those lazy days in comfy oversized clothes but aren't above spontaneously dressing up to show off or tease for the right person. Glasses are adorable and sexy. I do tend to be more attracted to the 'vertically challenged' among the female populous and I fully admit to being a 'boob guy' who is well acquainted with sizes beyond what you find sold in local stores. Petite, Athletic, Curvy, Voluptuous - all are wonderful body types!

If this sounds like I'm talking about you, well, I'd be ecstatic to hear from you! Tell me a little about yourself - your age, location and anything else you want to share about yourself upfront. I look forward to meeting you!