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At 41 and rooted in the Midwest, I’m searching for something rare. The kind of connection that feels like the first sip of coffee in the morning (hey, fellow moms!). Not just fleeting chemistry, but something effortless, steady, and real. I’ve felt it before — briefly and undeniably — and I believe it’s still out there, waiting for the right person.
I check a lot of life’s conventional boxes: intelligence, fitness, an eye for aesthetics, and a life built with purpose (white picket fence vibes included). But beyond accomplishments, I’m looking for depth. You know, the kind of bond where conversation flows naturally, where silence is as comfortable as laughter and where presence matters more than perfection.
I’m drawn to minds that are curious, thoughtful and alive to the world. Books, sports and music are woven into my waking hours, and I gravitate toward someone who shares that hunger for discovery. If you’re an independent, open-hearted soul, maybe a demi/sapiosexual who values meaningful dialogue as much as a well-timed smirk, we might just click. A little banter, a little depth, and a whole lot of presence? Sounds like a good place to start.
If this resonates, let’s see where it leads. And if not? Well, the sun still rises tomorrow.
To prove you read this, if you drop me a haiku I’ll push you to the front of the line :)
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