What I'm looking for:

• Married and a parent. No exceptions. Preferably with kids in school. It helps us relate being in the same place in life. 
• Not a fan of the current presidential administration. You have empathy and like to think.
• Not a cake eater, just looking for NRE or are just "bored". You have a DB and/or your marriage isn't the best.
• Looking for something exclusive that we will build together to last.
• You've done this before with success. Especially online. You know what it takes. The effort. The thoughtfulness. The opsec. You aren't careless with thoughts or feelings (yours or mine). You aren't gonna back out at the last second. You're ready.
• Not asking for pics up front. We are gonna get to know each other first. No point in seeing what we look like if we don't even get along. I've gotten more "Oooo"s than "Ehhhs"s once we get to the pics, but beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
• Love is off the table. But several other "L" words are not; longing, (deep, deep) like, lust and more...there will be real feels.
• I saw another post mention "stalker tendencies preferred". Basically that. Once we have trust, I wanna be all in. Sharing our lives as much as and as often as we can.
• At least 38. Easier for us to relate. 
• You aren't a model (neither am I) but you take pride in your appearance, even if no one at home notices any more. You are ready to be appreciated again. Let's make each other comfortable in our own skin. Figuratively and literally when the time comes.
• You have a libido. Maybe an over activate one. That's something we can have in common.
• PST or close is preferred. Helps with communication. The important thing is our availability matches. I'd love for this to be occasionally IRL, but mostly messaging, pics, vids & voicemails is how we share our lives. We have to make the most of it.
• Quirky, off beat, silly, odd... anything but normal. You have a personality that maybe is misunderstood or not appreciated. I want to experience it.
• You have passions. Things you like. Things you hate. Things that amaze you. Things that move you. Share them with me. I want to know all about them.
• You like to converse. You enjoy back and forth. Sometimes I lead, sometimes you do. Neither of us will have to do all the heavy lifting all the time. 
• Not using this as a way out of your marriage/relationship. I'm not a tool or means to a divorce or separation.

What I bring:

• Passion. Lots of it. I will think about you night and day. You'll get the "good morning"s, "good night"s and everything in between as long as you promise to match me. 
• Attention. I crave it. I want to give it. Lots of it. I want to be infatuated with you, and you with me. I want us to be obsessed with each other.
• Humor. I like to laugh. There is usually a one liner in me somewhere just waiting. I want to make you laugh and smile.
• Effort. I'm not afraid of it. I know what it takes. I'll give you everything I possibly can at every turn. I want you to feel me with you, even in the times I can't be.
• The everyday. I'm not gonna message only when I'm bored or want to sext. I'm gonna share the little stuff as much as the passionate, naughty stuff. We'll celebrate all our victories big and small together and support each other when things are tough. I want to know about your day. What you think. How you feel. Every possible moment.
• Actions that match the words; I'll do what I say and say what I do. This will be real feels so communication and follow through is important. If you're gonna stop the "good mornings/nights" after a day or two, I'm not for you. If you are gonna disappear for a day(s) without warning, we're not gonna last.

So, what do you think?