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The grass is always greener, isnāt it? Even in high school, I was the kid who stayed home studying instead of going to the party (in part because I wasnāt invited). And in some ways it did pay offāgood schools, good career, respectable life. In some ways it didnātāfeeling I missed out, repressed pathways, and thousands spent on therapy. I know this is likely just a standard midlife crisis, but itās here, and I want to pursue it.
Iām not new to this, but Iām realizing more about why I seek out affairs. In addition to the thrill of finding a new relationship, and potentially a new love, itās also a way to tread the path not taking. What if I eschewed the āproperā path and pursued something else? Not that this life was the āwrongā one, but instead seeing what things would be like in a different world. So I want someone who can show me.
The boring stuff: Iām in good shape, brown hair and eyes, short beared. Iām white, and if that matters to you then we probably arenāt a match. Iām center-liberal, and if that matters to you then we can probably have some good debates. Iām busy and canāt be available at the drop of a hat. I donāt expect that of you eitherābeing in an affair demands flexibility.
I get that this lifestyle has a ton of false starts. I donāt mind being told itās not a match; Iām an adult, you donāt have to protect my feelings. Hell, ghost me if you want. But Iād love to come into this trying to see what works as soon as possible. Bypass the unnecessary nicetiesāletās get to the interesting questions fast.
Message me a bit about yourself!
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