I’m not new to cheating. Sad to say that I’m quite experienced. My last affair was over three years long, and the break up fucking hurt. I promised myself that I’d leave this life behind. Focus on other things—hobbies, work, try to rebuild my marriage, maybe? But here I am. Best laid plans, I guess.

Perhaps this is an addiction. At least it’s not meth or something.

I’ve realized I missed the joy in the affair, even with the knowledge that they all end, and some end harshly. But with all the challenges life has these days, the oasis of someone just for me, a new love to explore and blossom, is something I want again.

So who am I? I’m a lawyer that sold his soul to pay off his student loans. I was planning on transitioning to the federal government, but those plans are on hold for at least four years. I’m a runner, in good shape, short beard and full head of hair. Happy to send a picture on telegram or another app.

I read a lot, watch terrible streaming shows, and am trying to get my abs back. I’ve started therapy this year due to some unresolved issues in the past, but have kept part of my life locked away, and don’t plan on revealing it.

I’m looking for someone who is open to an actual affair, acknowledging that it could (and likely will) lead to some pain, but knowing that it could be worth it. I don’t have a “type,” but my last AP did match me physically and was fearless in conversation. I’ve learned that being overly cautious usually leads to fizzling out. Hoping I can find someone who is wiling to be brave, and perhaps a tad reckless, with me.

Send me a message with a bit about you. The world is a mess, so why not make our own?