Hi, I'm searching for my "bestie with benefits!"

Like most people here, I am happily married, but something is missing—the connection, desire, and friendship. I’m often left wanting more at home. I'm sure you can relate.

I'm looking for a long-term connection with an engaging woman who can speak their mind and bust chops! A true friend to have all kinds of conversations, including spicy ones! I've often been told that I notice the little details most guys miss, so I'm sure I will be able to keep our conversations fun and exciting!

A bit about me: I'm 38, conventionally attractive, 6'2", fit, and clean-cut. My friends would describe me as kind, witty, and driven, with a "glass half-full attitude"—but you can decide that yourself!

My love language is words of affirmation. So, you can bet I'll always remind you how attractive and amazing you are. And, yes! I will call you "beautiful" and even "good girl" if that's your thing!

I am not the average guy. I’m not into beer; I’ll take a craft cocktail or a glass of red wine instead. I don't watch sports, but I was a college athlete. I don’t own a gaming console, but I can binge Love Is Blind for hours. I’ve never been hunting or fishing, but have spent hours photographing wildlife. My wardrove leans more toward Milan than Midwest.

I'm passionate about my job. I work from home and travel often, so the odds are that I'll end up near you at some point! My passport is my most prized possession—traveling is my therapy. I have been to 43 states and 26 countries on five continents; And I am on a work trip right now that will increase those numbers.

Most importantly, I understand that there is a human being with feelings on the other side. I'm not expecting you to be my private OF creator and will not ghost you. I'm very discreet and will respect all your boundaries. I expect the same in return.

With all this said, I’m not looking to change my situation or yours; I only want to enhance it. I want a friendship that fulfills the missing areas in out lives.

If you’re up for a dynamic mix of good conversations, laughter, and spiciness, then stop lurking already! Send me a message!

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