33M; I’m a physician researcher working in an academic hospital. I am here because my workload is quite heavy and I cannot compensate for this by finding peace at home. I have two little girls and they are my only reason for continuing this marriage. I am going to skip this part quickly because I do not want to whine about the problems I have with my wife. I’ve started looking for OA for excitement, comfort, commitment, the adventure of getting to know someone new, the impatience of discovery, the attraction of hiding, butterflies my belly...

This is not my first OA experience, in my previous attempts that lasted a few months; one of them faded out due to the initial excitement gradually disappering and the other had to end as an opsec precaution.

My scientific research is not just a job for me, I do it with pleasure. I do not have much as a hobby. Cycling is both a hobby and an exercise for me, I go on trips semi-professionally.

What I offer:

A room reserved in my mind. You will be my neighbor to my memories, excitements, dreams, fears, expectations and madness. I will be enthusiastic when talking especially on scientific subjects (especially if it is a subject that falls within my area of ​​expertise (cancer). I want to support with your daily issues and to share dreams.

What I expect:

Affection. I’d like to see the interest I show and experience/provide the same excitement. To start by being aware that this -I hope- can continue as a long-term relationship. I’m not here for short-term chats or sexting. I’d like to take a place in your life (actually in your mind) and to be a part of your daily life by texting/talking.

I don't have a particular preference for age, but we have to be from the same era, right? So I want to say 25-40. But if everything looks good, don't take it too seriously.

If there are common areas in our professional life/scientific/academic subjects and we can have long conversations on these subjects, it would be great.

Sharing photos at an early stage makes sense in order to understand that physical interest can be established. Some verification photos are also expected. But for intimate stuff such as sexting, waiting the maturation of our relationship is more enjoyable in every way. It would be better to get to know each other slowly and gradually develop into something special and private. I am not here for nude pictures or quick sexting. (OF ad-ers, sellers, scammers: please be aware that I am not interested in such things, please do not contact.)

I’m caucasian with a darker skin; I have a fit and muscular body but not a bodybuilder type, a tiny dad-bod (actually I’m gradually losing it), brown eyes and black hair. I don't have tattoos or piercings. My expectation from you is not to be overweight: I am against the aesthetic beautification and legitimization of a situation that is harmful to one’s health.

I live in Turkey. (If this is a problem for you in some racist way, you won't message me anyway, but I would be happy with it.) I am in the GMT 3 time zone, but since I am usually awake at night as a night owl, time zone differences don't affect me much.

I intend to keep it as an online affair, we shouldn't aim to change anyone's situation. A healthy relationship under the security of an online affair will meet my expectations.

If you have read this far and are willing to set sail such an adventure, I am waiting for your DM.