Hi there

So I’ve been lurking for a bit. After reading several of your posts and stories, I thought it might be easier to just post myself.

Obviously, I'm married, and we also have kids. While I wouldn’t call it a “dead” bedroom, I do feel like I’m missing the spark. I don't think I'm looking for a deep connection per se. I miss the excitement of getting to know someone new, learning about what they like, enjoying new jokes and flirtation. I just want to feel pretty, wanted, and not just in a physical way, but I miss feeling like someone looks forward to talking to me. Not sure exactly how all of that fits with what some of you are looking for, but who knows!

About me: I'm 5’5ish, brown hair, blue eyes, and I’m a bigger girl. No sense in denying it. After spending the last few years in my slouchy mom clothes and no make up, I'm working on getting back to myself. I do have a few tattoos and my septum pierced. I tend to be sarcastic and love some good witty banter. I have a bit of dark humor, so sometimes I laugh or make jokes when things aren't actually funny. If you can make me laugh, I'll probably be hooked. I love all things music. I sing along to songs of all genres, and I'm usually that person that can find a song lyric for most things people say.

I don't mind if things get spicy and would actually like that eventually, but I have to be comfortable with someone first. So if that's what you're looking for straight out of the gate, I will most likely awkwardly divert the conversation or just stop talking altogether.

If you need a picture for the physical attraction part, I don't mind sending a SFW selfie. At this point, however, I'm not sure I would want one of you. If I'm completely honest, I might rather just imagine that you're my ideal man instead of knowing otherwise. Does that sound weird?

I've written a lot more in this post than I ever intended, so here goes nothing.