Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and looks are subjective, attractiveness is important, yes even though this is online, but the mental attraction, our personality, and how we come across is important too, but you also want to be physically attracted to who you're talking with, it's definitely a conundrum! Right?

While you're thinking about that, also note that beautiful things have dents and scratches too, like perfect imperfections.

I make no apologies for being who i am though, the older i get, i seem to care less about what people think or say these days. I'm more comfortable in my skin than ever before and i know what i like and what i dont like. I'm straight up honest and will say what's on my mind but at the same time, im empathic (sometimes it's a curse) and wear my heart on my sleeve. I'm prone to over thinking and sometimes worry about the little things in life, because the little things are actually really important.

I'm quietly confident and fairly intelligent, easy to get along with, inquisitive, down to earth and laid back. I consider myself to be a gentleman, polite, courteous and emotionally available. Even though im 50, i look a little younger than i am, in fairly decent shape, with a full head of hair, a short greying beard, and I've been told i have nice kind eyes and a warm smile.

You're from the UK, at least 40 years old, a woman who is good with her words, you tend to 'think outside of the box', aren't constrained to convention, and who can bring a bit of banter and sarcasm to the table, but also able to show your softer side. You are confident, with a dark sense of humour. If you call yourself the mum next door with a mum bod, or curvaceous then you'd most probably turn my head.