Life’s a lot of things—busy, messy, sometimes a little predictable—but it’s also meant to be shared. At 40, I’ve got a life that’s full in many ways: kids who keep me on my toes, a dog who listens when it suits her, and two cats who probably think they own the house. It’s a good life, but there’s a part of me that’s missing that deeper connection, someone to talk to, laugh with, and spend real time with.

I’m not here for endless texting or conversations that fizzle out after a few days. I’m looking for someone local, someone who’s open to meeting up for coffee, taking a walk, or even sharing a low-key evening just talking. I want something that feels genuine, where we can really get to know each other and enjoy the little things—whether it’s a good joke, a deep conversation, or simply being in the same space.

I’m not a fitness model,I may even have a small case of Dunlapped disease( my belly dunlapped over my belt), but I’d love to find someone who’d join me on a hike or try a new restaurant together. I believe chemistry isn’t about perfection; it’s about how two people make each other feel.

If you’re looking for something real, someone who will actually show up and share the moment, let’s start there. I’m here for the kind of connection that gets better in person, not just over a screen. Let’s see where this goes—you never know, it could be the start of something that changes everything….

I want to be upfront—I’m looking for someone within an hour of me, preferably closer. I wish distance wasn’t an issue, but it does matter. Because of my job, I’m available throughout most of the day, though texting isn’t always convenient. I’d genuinely appreciate someone who’s comfortable having phone conversations. Lastly, if you’re not serious or are just looking for a fleeting thrill, please don’t reach out. The one-day conversations followed by ghosting are getting old.