I know you are out there, and I would like to get to know you. Maybe finding the perfect one is impossible, maybe it isn't. I would like to find out, and that finding out starts with the ones who take a chance and respond. I can promise you we will have a conversation. I don't send unsolicited rated r pics in the first 30 seconds.

A bit about me.

6'4", greying/graying hair, Average build (getting better), green eyes (one with brown stripes), No beards, no tattoos. I think of myself physically as the executive geek look. my fav clothing brand right now is Tommy Bahama).

I love to talk and get to know people, I like to think of the positive in every situation. (Eternal Optimist) Growing up and in my 20s and 30s, my house was the one everyone came over to to have fun. I find people just generally interesting.

I am a gamer (played a 2p TTRPG (The Skeletons) with a previous OA one evening and it was amazing), a geek, a 3d Print enthusiast, a reader, a Tv show binger (bring on Severance this Friday), and am learning Japanese on Duolingo right now.

A bit about what I am looking for.

Looks wise, I am not sure, as this OA thing has shown me that there are a wide range of physical attributes I am attracted to. I think I can say, I find confident ladies that care about how they present themselves to be more attractive.

Someone who loves to chat and converse. I don't mind early 20 questions, but we have to be interested in learning each other. I am always amazed how many people join OA to meet new people but don't actually carry a conversation. It is hard getting to know someone if there is no conversation.

Someone who loves the good morning and good night messages, the sneaky messages while you are out and about, and all of the feelings you can get with a real connection here on OA.

So that is about it. I would love for you to take a chance and send me a message, lets chat. Worst case we chat and don't connect, or the attraction isn't there. That is ok, I would rather take the shot and miss than not take the shot.

One last thing, my fav song right now is Broken by lovelytheband. It speaks to what I am looking for. :)