Really I'm kidding!? But seems to be the norm in this reddit world. It amazes me how people chat for a few hours, a few days or even a week and then magically disappear without a word. I haven't really posted here on reddit but a few times over the last 3 or 4 months since I joined. Mainly because It's quite exhausting trying to find someone here that is serious, can carry on an actual conversation and doesn't just ghost. But I am giving it another shot and we'll see what happens!

I have had an AP/OA before that lasted for 3 yrs (Not from reddit). It was wonderful while it lasted and ended a couple of years ago over something beyond either of our control. But I would very much so love to find that again with someone.

I am married! Not necessarily unhappily!? I would say it's more just comfortable yet not satisfying in many areas. And it's more like a roommate situation in a lot of ways. But I am not looking to change mine or anyone else's situation. I'm also not looking to take someone's attention 24/7. Although I have quite a bit of time to put into this, I can't always promise someone my attention 24/7 either. I am well aware we all have our own lives outside of this dynamic. And I would prefer to find someone who also understands that. In saying that though I would probably mesh with someone better who WFH during the day or is a SAHM or even someone from another country sometimes can work out with the time difference.

I say this because eventually down the road I would like the whole dynamic with someone. The voice call's, video chatting, the intimacy. All of it! And those things I can't do in the evenings or weekends because my family is around. So obviously it's a lot more difficult if not impossible to do lol. But I am still able to keep in contact through text during those times, just maybe not as prompt or as often. And I will say I am not a night owl! I am generally in bed early and up early. So if you are looking for a night owl I am not the guy lol.

So I guess other than what I have mentioned above. Lets just chat and see if we click. I could go on for days writing here but I don't think most people read all of these anyway. So I will leave things to chat about. Hope to hear from you!! Oh and I prefer to exchange pics early on and move to telegram if we click. I don't do snap!