Hi! 45, M here in the northeast US. I'm married and have been in a roommate situation for several years. I've never cheated in real life (and don't think I could) but have decided to give myself this secret outlet as a pressure relief valve. I'm not here to spouse bash or change our situations, just want us to help each other fill what's missing.

It's really exciting to get off with a stranger. The thrill of connecting with someone new and the mutual discovery that follows. I love how everyone is so different, making each chat experience unpredictable.

In the interest of full disclosure I want to be honest about what I'm looking for here. My life right now is very busy and I don't have a lot of time to devote to nurturing a longer term relationship. I've heard from many women who are frustrated and jaded (justifiably so) by men who are pretending to want something they don't. I'm not wired to deceive and frankly I'm not very good at it either, so I won't. We're all anonymous here, why not just be honest about what we're looking for? I'm really just looking for some fun and naughty chat partners, maybe share some photos if we feel like (not required). Maybe you're feeling in a certain mood today and just want to find someone who's not a creep to get off with. I can be that guy for you.

I'm 6'4", have blue eyes, wear glasses, keep short brown hair & beard. I'm in good shape from a physically demanding job and would love to describe for you what I like to do with my big, strong hands.

I'm friendly, open-minded, descriptive and playful. Not especially kinky but willing to meet you where you need me to. Mostly, I go for situations that are grounded in realism. I will respect boundaries, ask you about yourself and actually listen! Let's chat and see if we hit it off!