After my last two AP’s, I’ve learned exactly what I want to get in my first few messages before even moving forward to put the effort into a chat.

A little about me: I’m married, living in upstate NY, and working in a HS. My marriage is complicated and we can discuss it if it feels right. I’m a romantic. I like receiving flowers randomly, making my partner feel like they’re sexy and loved, surprise texts and pics going both ways, open communication, honesty and trust. I want to know all about my person. I want to fall for you and you to fall for me.

My looks: 5’8, plus size, glasses, tattoos, brown hair and eyes

What I need from this: -open chat availability, not just during your work hours. I’m available 90% of the day and would like you to be as well. This includes the possibility for voice and video chats. This is important for emotional and physical intimacy. -someone open to eventual meet ups. Not often, but at least the possibility. I like having options is all. -open and honest communication. Transparency is important in these types of things. -ability to move to telegram if we are mutually attracted and interested in chatting further.

About you: no specifics except that I have to find you attractive and interesting. You should also at least be interested in some of the above.

If you are interested, message the following: A pic of you (you’ll receive mine in return), what you’re looking for, where you’re located, and what your availability.

I look forward to chatting with you!