Hi! 45, M here in the northeast US. I'm married and have been in a roommate situation for several years. I've never cheated in real life (and don't think I could) but have decided to give myself this secret outlet as a pressure relief valve. I'm not here to spouse bash or change our situations, just want us to help each other fill what's missing.

It's really exciting to get off with a stranger. The thrill of connecting with someone new and the mutual discovery that follows. I love how everyone is so different, making each chat experience unpredictable.

In the interest of full disclosure and not wanting to give anyone the wrong idea, I'll be completely honest in what I'm looking for. My life is very busy and I don't have a lot of time to spend here so I'm really just looking for some fun, passionate and dirty chats, maybe trade some photos (but not required). I'm not looking to nurture a long term connection. I've spoken to several women who have become justifiably frustrated and jaded by men on here pretending to want a relationship. I'm not wired to deceive and frankly, I'm not very good at it either. That's why I would like to clearly state what I'm looking for. Maybe you are in a mood today where you just need someone to satisfy your desires right now. I would love to be that guy for you.

I'm 6'4", have blue eyes with short brown hair & beard. I'm in good shape from a very physically demanding job and would love to describe for you what I like to do with my big, strong hands.

I'm friendly, open-minded, descriptive and playful. Not especially kinky but willing to meet you where you need me to. Mostly, I go for situations that are grounded in realism. I will respect boundaries, ask you about yourself and actually listen! Let's chat and see if we hit it off!