As the title states, I am looking for something a little different. I am not looking for that all consuming OAP. I'm not really even looking for something that entirely resembles an affair. To be clear, nothing wrong with those wants or the people seeking them, but I am looking for something way less intense, as that is all I am really capable of offering.

A little about me. I am 43 married with two kids. I am tall enough for most of reddit. I have a great career in the legal industry, in what can best be described as a fixer, but not in the fun movie sense! I basically unscrew law firms to make them profitable and I am very very good at it. I have a shaved head and full beard . I'm in pretty good shape, but i don't pass up a good meal and I'm good with that trade off. I do have a ton of availability for the right person, but I won't be chasing you down for conversation either. It needs to flow and be easy.

I have been around a long time, longer than I'd like to admit lol and the one thing I have concluded is that, for me, asking a woman to be my everything and cure all my ails is unfair to her and unrealistic for me. I have met many amazing women here and as soon as it gets to "that" level of intensity it all falls apart, so I figured it's time to try something new.

So what am I looking for? I'm looking for a friend who i can talk about everything with. Yes, that obviously includes sexual stuff, but that is far from the exclusive/primary topic. We will be the friends who can hang out platonically but also get into some trouble in the right conditions. Attraction is important so we can make sure thats there and really leave everything else to flow organically. I do prefer women midsize and below, but everything else i am wife open (hair eye style etc).

I know this set up will not be for everyone. I know some need much more than I can offer. For those that would like to give it a shot, shoot me a message and we can get to know one another and see where it goes.