It's a new year, full of hopes, full of wishes, trying to leave all the mistakes and regrets behind. They're there, but somehow they seem to be farther away than just a few days ago. It feels like the perfect chance to start something new, something special that lasts and gives us a part of what we're missing: communication, affection, desire.

For the communication part, I want to find someone to be completely open and sincere, at all times. Sometimes because of my fears, or because how much I overthink, I haven't been able to achieve this and I want to make it happen for the right person. I am from Spain, in a marriage that feels stuck and still can't end for a variety of reasons, one of them being a little kid. I can be either an introvert homeboy or an outdoors explorer. I love reading, getting inspired to do something artistic (like drawing or crafting), watching a good (or bad) horror movie, or a comedy that makes me laugh until I can't hold my tears. I also love traveling and exploring our world, keeping my mind open and enjoying the food and experiences in little corners if the Earth.

The affection part will come as we know more of each other. I don't need much to be happy, a good morning text, a bad joke, a picture of the sunset you're watching right now... Just knowing we're thinking of each other can make me daydream of you.

The desire part, well that can't come without the other two, but about how I look I can tell I'm 5'11" (or 180 cm tall), I keep myself fit but there is a slight dad bod trying to take over, brown hair and eyes, and quite pale for the Spanish stereotype (but who cares about stereotypes anyway).

So if you reached here, if you felt all this could be what you're also looking for, let's start this new year together. Let's start a journey where we decide where we're going, a safe place without judgement where we can be ourselves. A place where I'll always be waiting for you with a smile.