Hi folks, to get to a point my marriage is solid, however out of balance when it comes to physical attention. Little bit shy of roomate situation. As it commonly goes, she's vanilla, and I feel an unquenchable thirst. Because this is out of balance I have stockpiled affection to give.

I know I'm not alone so here I am putting my cards on the table to see if anyone is interested. I'd like to list what I could be for you, to hopefully spark your interest.

I enjoy caring, all of it, what's between us, and beyond. I'll enjoy your weaknesses just as much as your strengths. I'm humble, confident but find confidence in humility and can adore yours. I enjoy creating a comfortable space for you to stretch anything you can't in your reality. A true confidant. A place to stretch out desires, thoughts, feelings, without being judged. Your safe place. I have this affection and expression and want to give it to one. I enjoy giving praise, validation, compliments. Listening about serious and mundane topics, personal or etc. I'd rather enrich your life than disturb it. I love mutual advantage.

What do I wish for, the same. Just a place to be my affectionate self and be welcomed to it.

I'm not looking for specific other than what's mentioned above. I'm happy to meet any married woman older than 35. Very open to many body types and races.

I do understand how Reddit goes but I'm available for long term, if this connection works. I'm not afraid of feeling either. I enjoy the dated practice of courting. Willing to take the route and pace we set together.

I consider myself rational, flirtatious, patient. I am 6', 2", good posture, not slim, but not to overweight. 215, lbs. Caucasian, easy on the eyes, not everybody's type but somebody's. I clean up well, but mostly found in clothes that can touch the Earth. I'll stop and leave more for us to talk about, thank you for reading.