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39 [M4F] EST - Looking for a nerdy best friend for the new year
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Cats_and-naps is a male age 39 looking for a female
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I’m seeking someone to share a lasting, meaningful bond with—someone to connect with over our daily struggles and little victories. I want to build trust, be vulnerable, and grow together. Ultimately, I’m looking for companionship—someone who can make the quiet nights feel a little less lonely. I’m a night owl, often left with empty evenings, and I’m ready to meet someone in person semi-regularly. Emotional and intellectual connection are what matter most to me, but I understand that physical attraction is a natural part of the process too.

About Me:

  • 5'10", dark hair, scruffy facial hair, glasses, and a dad bod that’s more charming than it sounds. If that’s your thing, you might just find me cute.
  • I’m married and a dad—so I know life has layers, but I also know what it means to look for something real.
  • I’m a bona fide nerd (and proud of it). I have a pretty balanced lifestyle though, juggling work and hobbies with a sense of humor.
  • My interests range from theatre and musicals to history, museums, travel, and cooking (especially baking). I’m into board games, video games, and reading—primarily fantasy, horror, and sci-fi. My love language is cat pictures and bad memes. Bonus points if you’re into any of these too.
  • I work in a pretty sexy scientific field, but I’m lucky to have flexibility during the day and night. I’m not interested in a surface-level connection or just a few messages here and there—I want something deeper.

About You:

  • You’re talkative, curious, and down-to-earth, with a few shared interests—especially books! You don’t need to have a fancy job, just a passion for learning and growing.
  • You’re looking for a long-term connection, not something short term.

At the end of the day, I’m looking for someone to say good morning to and share the highs and lows of life with. Someone to trust, laugh with, and be a part of each other's daily journey. If that sounds like something you’re looking for, let’s see where it could go.

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Age
39
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a female
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