It’s a challenge to stand out on here. But here goes. I’ve been married for 17 years, have a couple of kids, and life is now about them. I’m looking for that spark—excitement, connection, emotion, that feeling of longing. The thrill of thinking about someone I probably shouldn’t be, and that smile that creeps up when I see a message from you. Start something from scratch and see where it goes.

A little about me: I’m 41, from the Midwest, 5’10” and I have a body in decent shape. I tend to wear my heart on my sleeve. Would like to think I’m attractive. I love a slow burn and taking time to get to know someone.

I have time for this at work and at home. I feel like photos, videos, and voice notes make this kind of thing more real and personal, so I’m open to sharing and hope you are too.

As for what I’m looking for—it’s someone who’s active, patient, and confident to message. I’m available but I’ll always let you know if I’m tied up or busy. I’m not sure if I have a type. But if you’re a curvy mom, that’s definitely a positive.