A little bit tired, curious, bored, and lonely. Growing older has brought challenges I never really considered, mainly because I never expected to find myself in this position. From my early 20s I’ve been with my wife, and after over a decade of being together I’ve come to terms with the fact we’ve just grown separately. While we coparent our young children smoothly and do enjoy the others company overall I can’t deny the intimacy has waned- not just physically but mentally as well. It’s the ever common roommate situation but I know I need more. I’m here hoping to find a partner who can relate, someone who wants to be more than just 2 ships passing in the night. Now is as good a time as ever to search for that distraction, so if you share that same thought maybe we can break out of our routines together.

I’m 31, living on the east coast of the US. Ideally you’re a parent to young children as well, as I hope to find a woman who can share and understand the day to day in raising kids. I miss having a consistent and reliable friend, someone mature and comfortable in her own skin ready to settle into something where there is room for intimacy. Of course I’m aware of the reality of our situations, but hope to make that connection where we can fill the others cup when necessary.

I’d say I’m easy going and down to earth, with a good head on my shoulders. I’ve got a career I enjoy and work hard in, but still have the time and attention to give and hope you would as well should we hit it off. I’m confident in my looks but understand the subjective nature of attraction so I may not be for everyone. I’m more of a dad next door type maybe- 6ft tall, average to slim body, full head of hair, blue/gray eyes with glasses to frame them. I’ve been told I’m cute and attractive, and am happy to share pictures when the time comes.

Maybe you get it, and I’m hoping you tell me how you do. Ideally I’d find a partner here that’s in a similar place in life, missing attention and affection and ready for a relationship where there is give and take. Reach out should you find yourself interested- hopefully we can share this adventure together and fulfill what’s been missing.