I'll try to keep this short and direct (but I kinda like to write, and who knows? you could end up liking it later on ;)).

We all struggle about how this works (at least I do...). Between you being flooded by messages as soon as you appear (seems like "F" is all that's needed to flood your chat, whatever else you write) and us behind drowned in an ocean of M post or in the middle of hundreds of answers (you can't read or answer all) to your post, it's hard for everyone, and our paths our likely not to cross ever, even if we're meant to be.

I could write a long detailed post about why I'm here, how much I have to give to the right person, everything I want from this... It worked to a certain extent, but I'm still here looking, and I feel like my post is out there not being seen mainly because all posts look alike to some point.

Here is what seems important to me before we start:

I want this to be online, and don't want to change anybody's situation. I'm here to create a special connection with someone equally special, both emotionally and sexually (if all the lights are green a bit later on) and I feel like people want just one or the other. I'm not here to get in your pants right away, ask you nudes or send you a D pick (it's way too personal to spread it around to strangers, and you'll have to deserve it, as much as I'll have to deserve your pics). As physical attraction IS important. I'm ok to exchange sfw pictures relatively fast and see how we feel. I find it normal to verify we are who we say we are (but nothing that could connect us to our irl life of course). I want to make this work (time, will) so you should too. I understand the need for discretion and that we all have lives and obligations (partners, kids, jobs).

About me:

Fit and relatively good looking (not new around here and I had more often the "sexy" or "handsome" comment rather than the ghosting after the selfie exchange), many hobbies (nature and animal lover, hiking, reading, listening music, movies, series, books...). Big empathy and caring, good conversationalist and sarcastic humor.... if you want to know more, you know what to do ;)

About you:

Someone like me who believes that true happiness lies in simple things and not money or success, sensitive, caring, fun, somehow attractive (I don't have a type, usually more into fit/slim girls, but a pretty face with some shapes can make me melt as well),... the rest is up to you to fill.

Bonus point if you're in Europe (similar or close time zone helps), but if you happen to be on the other side of the world, let's see if we can make it work.

If you made it that far and felt something reading this just come say hi. Tell me who you are and what you're looking for with your own words. I won't be long answering. :)