I’ve been married for a decade but it’s been a dead bedroom for much of that. My wife isn’t a bad person but various meds have changed her and we’ve had many talks about how to deal with that. She’s suggested I find someone else to meet my needs numerous times but I think she’s only half-joking. So I’m looking for someone that wants to explore something and see how far it goes, but keep it secret (“keep it safe”) for now.

I have zero desire to blow up my life or anyone else’s, but one of the things I won’t say is “I have no intention of changing my situation” because there’s no way to know what the future brings. If you go into something with no possibility for it to develop and grow, you’re doomed to failure from the jump. And logically, if you’re here in the first place then you are admitting unhappiness and dissatisfaction to some degree, no?

About me: -I love animals of all sorts. I have a bunch of cats. I’ll send you pics of them unless you tell me not to. If you don’t like animals, I’m gonna assume you have a frozen, black heart. Or just allergies. But I’d rather you also like animals.

-I have no kids. I don’t mind kids and it’s okay if you have them.

-My main hobbies are video games and tabletop games. I’m involved in a project to create my own game but it’s still early stages. I play on all platforms and jump between a lot of games. You probably won’t find me playing a farming sim and anything where I spend more time harvesting and building than fighting, but I’m still open to all sorts of experiences. Right now I’m mostly spending time on Path of Exile 2 and Marvel Rivals.

-I watch a lot of shows but few movies. Most of the movies are horror or MCU films (or just 80’s and 90’s throwbacks.) I recently got through Secret Level, Rings of Power, What We Do in the Shadows, Umbrella Academy, and currently watching Silo. I’m looking forward to new seasons of Squid Game, Harley Quinn, Castlevania, Severance, and Invincible. The new Nosferatu movie also looks very cool.

-I’m as passionate about love and sex as I am about geeky interests. I am open-minded, kink-friendly, and like to express myself. By default I’m actually a very honest and forthcoming person (sometimes to my detriment) and am not scared of emotions and possibilities. A woman once told me I had “hella daddy energy” and I think it’s because I’m warm and understanding but also have a very dominant side. It could’ve also been the bad jokes.

-Younger me used to play lots of sports and go swimming or biking all the time. Older me hasn’t done those things in a while. I lived in Greece for some years and do have a home and relatives there as well. So there’s a baked-in escape plan if it’s ever necessary. I do derive a lot of peace and joy from nature but I’m also very content to snuggle on the couch with some cats.

-I voted for Kamala. I believe everyone deserves basic human rights including food and healthcare and bodily autonomy. I fully respect religious faith (I was raised by Catholic and Orthodox parents, and have people in my life who are Jewish, Buddhist, and Muslim) but the line ends at imposing beliefs on others or fucking genocides. Global human decency shouldn’t be such an unattainable goal, and yet…

-I work from home and generally have some time to chat during the day. Less so at night, but that doesn’t mean none. I’ll make an effort to check in and I’ll say good morning and good night and so on.

-I’m 6’4”, bald, short beard, mostly HWP but have some stomach to work off. I’m told I have kind eyes, nice lips, and a pretty cute butt. I’ve also got a deep voice that everyone seems to enjoy. No tattoos or piercings but I have nothing against them.

-I’m happy to move to a different platform like Telegram if we get along.

About you: -Please have at least some of the gaming or other interests that I do. I’ve met some wonderful people on Reddit but then I found out they didn’t like pets or any of the nerdy shit I was into, despite significant chemistry otherwise, and things fell off. Passion and enthusiasm are vital, in and outside of the bedroom.

-Your ethnicity is irrelevant. I’ve dated all kinds and I’m the type that looks for the positive qualities in a person. Age-wise, I don’t care too much either but if we want to be serious then it’s probably best if you’re closer to my own age. And yes, I do gravitate towards the thicker/curvier women but that’s not to say I would reject someone skinny if they like the stuff I like and have an awesome personality.

-You’re not afraid to show me the real you and be genuine and vulnerable. If you aren’t open to catching feelings or having nsfw chats, I’m probably not the right one for you. I don’t mind if you have to vent about your life or partner sometimes. I’m glad to share your burdens if we have something real and worthwhile. And if you aren’t feeling it, just be honest and move on. I’m not vengeful, sometimes things just end. I’d simply rather not be ghosted or toyed with.

You’ve reached the end, congratulations. Please send me a chat if interested and we’ll go from there. Maybe also tell me what your favorite Christmas movie is and why. A pic would be great too so I can see who I’m talking to. I will reciprocate in kind. Until then, have a great day.