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I’m a 46-year-old man who has been married for quite some time now. I love my wife, and we’ve built a life together, but there’s something I’ve been struggling with in our relationship. Over the years, my wife has become more and more disinterested in intimacy. She’s not necessarily asexual, but she’s very prude when it comes to sex, and it's been frustrating. We rarely have sex, and when we do, it's usually pretty mundane and not very exciting. I’ve tried discussing it with her, but nothing really changes.
I’ve started feeling like I'm missing out on something more passionate, adventurous, and exciting. I’m not sure if I’m just craving a change or if I need a different kind of connection. I feel like my desires are not being met in this marriage. I love my wife, but the lack of intimacy and excitement has taken a toll on me.
One thing I’ve realized recently is that I’ve developed an attraction to Asian women. It’s something I’ve felt for a while, and I’m not sure where to go with it. I’m not looking to cheat or do anything that would hurt my marriage, but I can’t help but feel this desire for something different, something that might offer the excitement I’m longing for.
I guess I’m just here to vent, get some advice, or see if anyone else has been in a similar situation. Has anyone dealt with a prude partner or felt like they were craving something more in their relationship? I’m not sure what the right next steps are, but I’m hoping for some perspective.
Thanks for reading.
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