I’m going to take inspiration from another post, and will be honest from the onset.

Obviously I’m married, no kids and not in a dead bedroom. I don’t bash my partner. In this case I’m the asshole looking for online companionship to supplement to my daily life.

Since I’m being open… Also know that I’ve always had a sexual obsession with skin tone. Yeah, I know, quite controversial. This isn’t something I would ever admit to in person or offline.

I find a difference in complexion between myself and a partner extremely alluring and an instant turn-on. No matter the contrast.

However, it’s not be-all and end-all of things. It’s one of those kinks that society has imprinted on me over the years. There are a few more which are probably considered vanilla such as exhibition, cunnilingus, worship, infidelity, mature / older, face-sitting, pubic hair, and so on.

Perhaps I tire of my own situation and culture, which is traditional white and Christian (Not that I’m a believer). They say a change is as good as a holiday, and in this case it probably is.

I should probably provide more info about myself: on the Alt side - laid back and relaxed, blue eyes, brown hair, slimmer build, fair skin, no tattoos, 5’10, etc. A metal head, love the ocean, scuba diving and traveling. Dark sense of humor, sarcastic and perhaps slightly odd with a dirty / kinky mind.

I work long hours, and don’t get to converse 24/7. However, I’m on here when I’m able to be. Don’t mind exchanging anonymous pics, voice notes or phone calls. None of these are mandatory though and this post is pretty much open to all.

At the end of the day, I’m just looking for casual conversation. A space for us to be ourselves, without any expectation of conformity to social norms.

Who knows, perhaps a casual chat will turn into something more deeper, meaningful and intimate.