"Without order, nothing can exist — without chaos nothing can evolve.”

Do you ever get the sense that at this point in life there is plenty of order, plenty of predictability and a notable lack of anything resembling chaos? Too little of the uncertainty of meeting new people, trying new things, and being surprised by the unexpected? That there is too much existing and too little evolving? If so, then we might enjoy talking to each other. Of course… it might go nowhere. It might be a waste of time and maybe “that's the way romance is. Usually, thats the way it goes. But every once in a while it goes the other way too."

If you know what I mean about wanting just a little bit of uncertainty, chaos, and evolution then I’m sure that I will enjoy talking to you, but just in case it saves us both some wasted time, here is a little bit about me, what I like to talk about, and how I tend to think.

I’m white, tall, and athletic. I am happily married and I am not here looking for fulfillment or to make up for my partner’s short-comings. I am just here to meet you. To find out who you are. To get to know you and see where things go. There is no need for you to have the same though. You may come as you are (doused in mud, soaked in bleach… sorry, can’t help it), and with whatever expectations and needs you have. I am here for uncertainty and, if you will, “consciousness expansion” (“No sympathy for the devil; keep that in mind. Buy the ticket, take the ride…”).

I am happy to share pictures if you like. I believe that appearance matters but I’m not looking for an underwear model or any idealized form. If you like the way you look I will probably like it too, and I am happy to let you set the tone for how much of our bodies we share. I am more interested in an engaging friend that I never see than lots of meaningless nudes.

Music, Movies, and Books are great areas of conversation. I’ve referenced Wilde, Cobain, Tarantino, Hunter Thompson, and the already — so you have some idea of what I like.

As a final note — I am not really comfortable staying on reddit long term. OpSec is important to me and if you are not interested in (eventually) using one of Signal (preferred), Telegram, or Snapchat then lets both save ourselves some time.