I’ve done this before. But the outcome is always the same. Before I get into anything, please don’t send me any unsolicited pics, or messages literally just saying “hey”. Please put some effort into your first message. If I wanted a “hey”, I could just say hi to my cat and she’d respond. Now that that’s out of the way, here’s a bit about me. I’m a Tennessean. I’ve lived here since I was around 8 or so. My whole life is here. I’ve had the same friends for years. We all met in school. I’m a very laid back person who wears her heart on her sleeve. I’m a bit shy at first, but tend to open up around the right person. I have 2 kiddos and they are my entire world. They’ll always come first.

I’ve been married for almost 7 years. Been with him for almost 10. In the beginning everything was prefect. But things slowly started changing. His drinking worsened, the fights escalated and things have become unbearable. There’s no love. I’ve fallen out of love. I want to fall in love again. Yes, this is cliche, but I want the butterflies, the good morning, good night texts, etc. I want to hear about your day and vice versa. I have the biggest heart, it’s just been basically shredded at this point.

We are separated, but due to finances, and the fact that I’ve been a stay at home parent, we have decided to live under the same roof until my oldest (from my first marriage) graduates in a few years. He does his thing and I do mine. We are just ships passing in the night. I’m 4’11. I do have a “mombod”, but I’m working on getting into better shape. I’m African American and very well spoken. My best feature is my smile. I love older, white men who have great smiles, are tall, can make me laugh, and make me feel safe. Also, if you have gorgeous eyes and hair I can run fingers through, that’s a definite bonus. I know you’re out there and I’m patiently waiting on you. ❤️