I'm not sure an "online affair" is the best description of what I'm looking for, but as a married man searching for a pretty woman to have a crush on, it's probably as good a subreddit as I'm going to find.

Looking for someone who can give me that "did we just have a moment?" vibe. The kind you get when you lock eyes with someone and hold it for just a second too long, like you're about to start a staring contest but also maybe fall in love. Or when a coworker accidentally brushes your arm and suddenly you're thinking about that touch for the next three hours, wondering if you’ve just been subtly flirted with or if you’re just a little too into office supplies. If you know exactly what I mean and you’re into those unexpected little sparks that make life more fun (and slightly confusing), you need to stop what you're doing and message me before you talk yourself out of it.

I’m 6'1" with a slim, athletic build, light skin, blue eyes, a shaved head, and a reddish-brown beard that I get lots of compliments on (unfortunately, all of them from men). I hit the home gym most mornings before the kids wake up, but only for about 20 minutes, so my body type is more along the lines of "reasonably fit but unassuming" compared to "giant crime-fighting machine." Lastly, if you like that whole "charming guy who smiles too much" vibe, I might be as addictive your daily dose of caffeine.

I’m the type who enjoys long, detailed messages with the added bonus of voice and video notes. A little bit like old-school pen-palling, with a 21st-century twist. I love when conversations really dig into the details and let you get to know someone in a deeper way. That said, I also think it's important to carve out opportunities for real-time chats, because nothing beats that in-the-moment spark. I have more availability during the day and tend to head to bed early, so I’m all about making the most of daylight hours. Eastern time is preferred (or parts of the world where my early bedtime won't be an issue). Please be married, have children, and lead an active, healthy lifestyle.