Despite that invincible summer inside me, outside the cold, grey and cloudy days are slowly creeping back into my little corner of the world and what is missing now more than ever is a reason to smile when I look at my phone and knowing that I am the reason you smile when you look at yours. I want someone to talk about silly nonsense to make each other laugh, and I want the flirting back and forth, laced with innuendos. And then, who knows what else develops…

I am not set on a specific type in this search, but I do have a few requirements I need you to meet: I prefer someone between 38 and 48, simply because it’s more likely that we can relate. Since I am in a long term relationship, please either be married or in a relationship as well. I also look after myself and my appearance, so I would appreciate someone who does the same. And despite the ultimately lighthearted goal of this post, I absolutely need you to be mature and self-aware to make this work. I can offer good availability throughout the day, which includes evenings and weekends, and I would very much prefer the same from you. These things need time and effort after all. If you’re not willing or able to dedicate both to this, you should please save us both the time… If you are self-aware, you know what you can offer and what not.

While I am primarily looking for an online connection, I am not entirely opposed to meeting in real life if we are a really good fit and logistics allow it. I have done this before both online and in person, it would be nice if you had some experience in this field as well.

Now, who is waiting for you on the other end?

I am on the shorter side (5”4) and in decent shape for my age. I have long brown hair, dark brown eyes, and I think I have a cute face. But more importantly, I am a good conversationalist, have a witty sense of humor and can talk about everything under the sun.

If you made it to the end (I know, it turned out a pretty long post…) the above speaks to you AND you think you fit the bill, I am looking forward to your message/ chat request. 🙂