So, about me (in handy list format bc I like making lists)

• 31F, collarbone length nearly black hair, dark brown eyes, kinda ghostly pale, glasses. average height, new mom and am working on getting back to my pre-baby body. I have a few piercings and a couple tattoos. I wear mostly black bc it’s easy to match haha. I’ve been told I’m pretty before and I’m happy to send face pics to see for yourself lol - I’ve also been complimented on my curves and I just might show ya if I like ya:)

• I’m very fairly nerdy — love video games (mostly RPGs and “cozy” games) and reading, movies and all things horror. Also a big fan of live music (some of my favorite shows have been gojira, trivium, mastodon, lamb of god, queens of the stone age, and knocked loose)

• I love to talk about anything and everything but feeling like I have to always steer the conversation scares me away

• bc I’m a new mom I keep kind of weird hours lol

  • I’m a manager in IT
  • been married for over a year, together just over four and am not interested in changing that

• I want to feel like someone is as excited to hear from me and see me as much as I’m excited to hear from and see from them. I miss feeling like my presence makes a difference haha

& a little about you:

• If you’re also a parent that’s a plus but not required, just understanding infants can make reply times less consistent sometimes <3

-have a few things in common so early conversation flows okay :)

• physical features aren’t super important to me but dad bods are a plus, esp if you wear glasses and/or also have tattoos/piercings

• will send pictures in return

• and not too be too cheesy but ideally: you’re also looking for something sweet and possibly spicier that is strictly online but could become a longer term thing :)

If any of this appeals to you send me a dm with a book or movie recommendation <3