Hey there,

I’m a 35-year-old guy from the Twin Cities, happily married for 10 years—but let’s be honest, the spark has been missing for a while. I’m in a place where I’m not looking to change my marriage, but I do miss feeling desired and having some excitement. I’m hoping to find someone who feels the same, someone looking for a discreet connection that brings passion back to life.

A little about me:

• Not a Gym Buff, But Definitely Active: I’m the kind of guy who works out 3-5 times a week. Not looking to compete in bodybuilding, but I love staying active, whether it’s running, biking, or just being outdoors. I’m healthy, fit enough to keep up with you on an adventure, and don’t mind breaking a sweat—just not the only thing I want to sweat over.
• Engaged Mind, Playful Heart: By day, I’m a marketer—so I spend a lot of time working with people and learning new things. I love good conversation, whether it’s about philosophy, the latest sci-fi series, or the best ways to sneak away for a quick getaway. You’ll find I’m thoughtful, but not afraid to crack a joke (sometimes a dad joke, but they’re good ones, I promise). 😉
• In the Bedroom, Your Pleasure is My Focus: I may not have the longest list of past partners, but what I do know is this: I’m all about making sure you feel good. I’m a giver and I want to make sure our time together is fun, fulfilling, and comfortable. No pressure, just a great connection and chemistry that makes us both feel alive again.
• Discretion is Key: I’m looking for someone who understands the importance of privacy and is discreet, just like me. I’ll never ask for explicit pictures, and I won’t send any either—let’s keep it classy until we meet and see if we vibe. I’m happy to share a pic once we’ve chatted a bit and feel like we’re on the same wavelength.
• What I’m Looking For: Someone around my age (30s-40s) who’s in a similar situation—married, looking for some excitement without disrupting your life. You’re someone who can enjoy a deep conversation, has a sense of humor, and isn’t afraid of a little spontaneity. You should be open to the possibility of a lunch break rendezvous or maybe even a weekend getaway (depending on our vibe).

P.S. Bonus points if you can make me laugh and send a clever, cheeky message to start things off. Humor’s a big win here!