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Iāve been asking myself for the longest time if the grass is truly greener on the other side. Iām married to my best friend for over 2 decades, but we were never sexually compatible. Love is blind isnāt it??? All the aspects youāre open to accepting regardlessā¦. Needless to say, as the years have gone by, the sexual intimacy has progressively decreased.
Then after having kids, the sex and foreplay became almost non-existent.
Iām now sitting in my office wondering if thereās someone out there in a similar situation as me. A wife or fiancĆ© or gf who said yes to either less than or one whoās situation dynamic slowly changed over time. Needing sensual affection and sexual stimulation without jeopardizing what is already had awaiting them at home.
Someone who values discretion and cleanliness to ensure their need for additional intimacy wonāt be discovered. Someone whoās tried traditional methods like talking or counseling, but those methods didnāt work. Someone who has a lot to lose in the event of separation. Hopefully you also have an oral fixation as that is probably what I miss the most.
I donāt wish to change my status/situation nor change yours, but am looking for someone who is also in need of a regular physical relationship outside of our current married lives.
Iām 50, 5ā8ā, about 163lbs, in decent shape (go to gym), have short brown hair/brown eyes, am very clean, and care a lot about hygiene.
Hopefully youāve read this far and understand/relate or you are interested in my post and are the woman Iām looking for.
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