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Don't get me wrong. Finding the "one" or finding someone I want to build something with is super awesome. And call me old fashioned, but every girlfriend I've ever had started with me wanting to F them. 😁😁 I'm not crazy. Attraction has to be there. Then you build something. And usually attraction means we get each other excited. I think things here are so difficult because some people are so opposed to things getting sexual too fast. And I get it. There are some a-hole guys here. So I don't know. Just thinking out loud.
Also. Just being honest. Sexuality is what I'm missing with my relationship. My wife is cool, but my sex drive blows hers out of the water. She knows it. So I guess I'm looking for someone who gets that. I want excitement and flirting and dirty messages to each other when we can't talk at the same time. I want to feel wanted and more important I want to want someone who appreciates my effort.
And if we start messaging. And having fun. And really getting along. Someone cool will build. We will start to really like each other. To me, this is how an online relationship can build and last.
But what the hell do I know?? 😂
About me: 39, married, 2 kids. Good job. I'm a happy, laid back, low stress guy. Good sense of humor. 6'0", bigger guy but not fat. I love music and concerts. I'm trying to read a lot more now than usual.
So there it is. Send me a message if you are interested. Or if you think I'm crazy.
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