I want that secret affair that makes me feel so excited and turned on throughout the day it makes all the risk of all of this actually worth it.

I'm done with being the good husband for the sake of everyone else. It feels like I've always lived my life for other people but it's time to do something for myself.

I've chatted with a few women before but someone usually always gets cold feet eventually. I think sometimes people get scared of getting strong feelings.

I'm looking for both emotional and physical. I know a lot of women here are satisfied with their sex lives already so are mostly just needing the emotional, but I think the reality for most men on here is lack of sex is the primary problem with their relationship. I think that's just the nature's of men and women though. So if we can meet at some point that is ideal for sure.

About me, I'm a professional and work quite a bit. However that means I'm typically available quite a bit to text, and travel somewhat often (mostly just within the province though). I'm 5'11 tall, average weight, try to go to the gym at least a couple times a week. Dirty blonde to brownish hair, Caucasian, wears glasses. Slight nerdy look but not too bad.

About you, honestly I don't really have much of a type. I've been attracted to all sorts of women. I do find myself especially attracted to Asian women, but it's definitely not a requirement.

I'd love to get to the point of voice/video calling, or even meeting if you are local. I think no matter where you are located, if we can't meet eventually it's like a permanent blue balls which is tough to get past. But I'm in no major rush to meet right away either.

I almost solely use Snapchat to communicate off of reddit. I can't make fake numbers in Canada so telegram is a no go for me for various reasons.

Feel free to message me if any of this interests you.